Your "blemishes" don't spoil your appearance. For starters, it would've been pretty reassuring to know that fat people of all gender identities and expressions, of all sizes on the plus size spectrum, and all around the world, are having beautiful, hot, kinky, consensual sex all the time. We are told that sexuality is not for us, so we should be grateful for any attention that does come our way. By Marie Southard Ospina. Fat women, in particular, are consistently desexualized on one hand and over-sexualized on the other. Fat people don't have to settlenor do their partners have to settle by choosing them. We are told that anyone who does want us must be a freak.
If you're getting hot and heavy with someone who's just as interested in your pleasure as they are in theirs, then being straightforward won't "kill the moment.
If you're getting hot and heavy with someone who's just as interested in your pleasure as they are in theirs, then being straightforward won't "kill the moment. By Marie Southard Ospina. So, she tends to ask her paramours to avoid that position. The thing is, sex can be messy, awkward, confusing, and a total learning curve for anyone — no matter their size. It takes practice, and sex can be so incredibly different person-to-person. Although fat sex and thin sex work very much the same, our bodies all crave different experiences — and there's nothing wrong with that. Like, all the time.